If I’m not a failure, then you are not a failure. There are days I feel like I have failed my boys more than any mama could ever fail their children and the Ask Your Mom If I’m Real Christmas Shirt. I have felt like God should have never trusted me to be their mama because I feel I have made such a mess. But, then I am reminded that I am not a failure. For Christmas last year someone else bought their gifts because I just couldn’t afford it. I couldn’t buy a pack of gum at the time, so I knew Christmas wasn’t happening.