I was thirteen when my Mother died and was told to stop crying at her funeral for the sake of my Father. I’m Not Yelling I’m A West Virginia Girl We Just Talk Loud Shirt! I struggled to control it and paid the price for years after. There were other times around that time when my emotions were suppressed for the same reason. This child may be crying for a very different reason but you can see she can not help it and is far too young to have to suppress how she feels. Damage can be done so easily to a child.