If You Mess With My Daughter Remember She A Batshit Crazy Mom Shirt! She always asked what impacted our mother-child relationship. She always wondered what happened to this close relationship. I was really surprised when I asked these questions again. The day immediately after the 14th birthday, after the sleeping party I returned home and was told that my mother had tried to commit suicide the night before. Why did she do that? Why not any other day but my birthday? I remember I crept into my mother’s room, trying to encourage my mother.