If You Met My Family You Would Understand Shirt! A year ago, today my family lost the most thoughtful, beautiful and honest woman we know. If you meet my family, you will understand the shirt! She is the one who will give away anything even if she has nothing, she has taken the shirt off her back for anyone even if they have done wrong in the past. She always makes the most of everything, always finding ways to make things positive. She always has the biggest smile on her face in family functions.