What a disgusting daughter you have and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles Pizza Dude’s Got 30 Seconds shirt how sad that she turned out that way. Go to the welfare people or if in the UK go to the council and ask for help. I do hope you find some really nice people to help you. God bless you. Hopefully, it a good church. But just find friends your own age, too. I think young people can learn from older people, and older people can learn from younger people. It would depend on the amount of value that the step-parent places on the quality of the relationship with the children. But, I should add that a bully holds little concern with regard to such things. Wives talk about their husbands all the time. It’s an involuntary act, done without thought. Some women brag about their men. Their achievements, support and love while others may just need to let off steam and have a cry. Either way women do talk, it’s what we are engineered to do.